Moving Forward

So its the end of 2010, I will say that it has been a year of highs as well as lows.  Made a few new friends as well as disconnected from some as well.. Relationship came and went, but through it all I still am standing.  This upcoming year Im not making any resolutions, Im just gonna take everything for what it is and learn from it.

Ready to see what 2011 has in-store :)

sad

It amazes me that guys think if a girl wants to be friends strictly that she is implying sex.  Guys you really need to get a clue, thats not the case.  Well at least for me its not.  It sucks that you're used to dealing with hoes and dont possibly know what friendship means...smh.
This world in which we live

Whats worse- the pain or the hangover?

Relationships are the most bittersweet things in this world...In retrospect I've only had two real relationships and they have both had disastrous endings, me in heartbreak and in a slew of confusion....Relationships do come and go...but often i ask myself, when will it be my turn to have one where the other personcares as much and is willing to put in the same work as I am if not more?  After every disastrous relationship ending I always began to doubt myself, thinking that there was something really wrong with me.  But slowly i realized that's not the case at all.  Relationships are learning experiences of what you will and wont accept...The pain is heart wrenching in the beginning, but it slowly eases away.  Remember everything happens for a reason, although you may not see it at the time your experience is something you needed to grow.  And remember there never is anything wrong with you ladies, but with the jerk who couldnt see your worth

Life

Lately I've been trying to figure this whole thing of life out.  Constantly we are made to believe that being a good person i.e. (treating others how you want to be treated) is the way to go.  But lately I've found that, that is just not the case.  Time and time again I find that doing the "right thing" often time leads to heart break and a big slap in the face.  One question that I have is why does this happen? or better yet how does treating people right and being a good person blow up in your face?  I understand that life throws curve balls and there is always a lesson to be learned, but why do bad things happen to those of us who are good people?  Food for thought

Getting Started

Hi out there! In case you didn't get the chance to check out my about me box, let me do a formal introduction.  First and foremost my name is Kelsey and I am a 20 year old student who attends Xavier University in the culturally diverse city of New Orleans.  Just to put it out there this is my first blog and first time doing anything of this nature, so please bear with me.  I'm going to start this off with my life experiences, stuff on fashion, friends, family, and school.  I would love to include things from you alls experiences as well as advice about any given topic.  Well stay tuned and enjoy!!!